Pretending

Milton Erickson once said, "You can pretend anything, and master it."

Pretend is acting as if, and acting as if, is actually how we as humans work.

It's functional in general.

For instance, when we measure something, we say, it's one foot long. Well, things are only exactly 1 foot long about every billionth time somebody says that. the other 999,999,999 or so times, it's something else., a little longer, or a little shorter.

The Step Into Action Motivation Pattern

Every so often we have major tasks that we really must do. It's really important to us that we actually get it done.

Have you had one of these puppies?

It might be writing a term paper or thesis, finishing that long term project at work dealing with things you don't understand or care much about, the major home improvement, the business plan for the part time business with multi-million dollar potential but zero pay initially, it might even be getting the house cleaned up after it's gotten out of control for several months, etc.

The Fundamentals

There are a few simple (not necessarily easy) fundamentals that form the foundation for progress with the Wisdom Strategy materials. These are core life disciplines, which will make it possible for you to make consistently profound progress.

The Power of Designing Outcomes

In NLP we have a basic skill of helping someone to discover their well - formed outcomes. You can think of outcomes as goals or results that you intend to accomplish or attain. Looking at this we might say "What do you want?", or "What is your desired outcome?", or, "What result would you like to accomplish?". These questions are more or less synonymous.

Goals = Desired Result = Intention = Objective = Desired Outcome

Recursive Releasing

This is the variation of the basic Sedona Method release technique that I find to be most powerful. I call this Recursive Releasing, and it's generally the form that is included in many packages.

Often times we develop a number of layers of associations of thoughts, meanings, and feelings around various topics. In order to release or transform them, its often valuable to be able to slice through the layers like a hot knife through butter.

Here's how to do Recursive Releasing:

1. Choose a topic to play with. We'll call this, "abc."

Who Does It?

Who Does it?

Who makes your personal development happen? It's a bit of a personal question, isn't it?

There are two main answers: Someone else, and you.

Teachers, facilitators, coaches, guides, mentors, even friends and family, etc. can be invaluable, because they can see things in us, hear things in what we say, help us to access heartfelt resources that we might never otherwise notice.

Is the Universe a Friendly Place?

A few thoughts from a recent correspondence.

Empowerment, wisdom, love, and authenticity when combined over time equal personal freedom.

Life, and all experience are truly vast inter-related and multi-layered systems of processes. Cause and effect is an illusion.

I'm reminded of an interview that Albert Einstein gave where a reporter asked him, "Dr Einstein, you have studied the universe from the vastness of the cosmos to the workings of tiny sub atomic particles. In your opinion, what do you feel is the most important question that humanity needs to find the answer to?"

Making Optimal Decisions

Your life is the sum - total of the decisions you have made, are making, and will make. History is the fabric of decisions that humanity has made.

If you want to have a great life, consistently make great decisions.

There are no completely inconsequential decisions. Obviously, some decisions are more impactful than others. However, every decision you make contributes in some way, small or large, to how you experience life.

Sometimes we put certain classes of decisions more or less on auto pilot. We call those habits.

The Self Concept Procedure

This is adapted from Leslie Lebeau's (formerly Leslie Cameron Bandler) Self Concept Procedure that she distributed through FuturePace, Inc. in the mid to late 1980's.

You are the only person you have to wake up with every morning. How do you feel about this person you wake up with every morning?

How you feel about yourself determines the quality of your life experience. Nothing can make up for not liking yourself.

Indications of a Positive Self-Concept:

1) Defining oneself on the basis of positive attributes, assigned based on self evaluations.

Outcome Specification

In the book NLP Volume 1, The Study of Structure of Subjective Experience, Robert Dilts and company start out by discussing environmental variables which are things we don't have control over and choice variables, which are those things we have a choice about.

We could say that NLP, and perhaps even more so, the work of Wisdom Strategy Research Institute, is about turning environmental variables into choice variables through specific outcomes.

Corrections for a Stalled or Rough Meditation Practice

Many people don't meditate on a regular basis because their experience of meditation is unpleasant and stressful. There are specific difficulties that are sometimes encountered. Generally, that is one of the advantages of working with a good meditation teacher, they can guide you. However, most meditation teachers don't have this full set of distinctions, because this is an assembly of knowledge from many sources, not limited to one meditation tradition.

Quad Theory: The 4 Essential Factors of Enlightenment

The essence of Quad Theory is that there are 4 qualities, or personal attributes that are essential for success at any endeavor, including the attainment of Spiritual Enlightenment. Those 4 qualities are: Love, Wisdom, Empowerment, and Congruence. These 4 qualities are found throughout history in most major philosophies, religions, and even the structure of the government of the United States of America.

Useful Beliefs

This is a very incomplete listing of beliefs that are useful, empowering, and probably worth believing:

There is no such thing as failure or defeat unless you create it as such for yourself.

There is no such thing as failure or rejection, there is only feedback, and results.

I always succeed in producing a result.

Anything that's possible for one person, is possible for anyone.

Everything is possible.

The past doesn't necessarily equal the present, or future, unless I continue to choose to create it.

I really like myself.

The Four Core Fundamentals

The Fundamentals list is kind of on the long side. It's a lot of things to keep track of everyday. The list is definitely valid. Most people already do pretty well with most of the self-care kind of things. So, here is an abbreviated set of Fundamentals, which for most people, are the four core things to initially focus on the most.

1) Meditate Daily

The Inner Smile

This process comes to us from Chi-Kung.

This is a fairly powerful, non-verbal process for loving and healing your self. Many kinds of dis-ease have multiple factors that contribute to creating them. Some of those factors include emotional and energetic factors. The inner smile indirectly addresses both, while encouraging you to be able to experience your natural inner glow.

1. Close your eyes, and relax your body for a moment. Take 3 or more deep breaths.

2. Put a big, smile on your face. Smile a radiantly big smile, if it's not a match where you are otherwise at the moment.

Therapy And Invalidation

There is a general theme in Western society, including those cultures that have been moderately influenced by the West, which is to say most of the world. This theme is anti-therapy. Therapy in this case meaning psycho-therapy, and all those things similar to it.

If you spend much time around very highly functioning, high achieving people, such as Senior Executives in multi billionaire corporations they are generally very good examples of being highly emotionally intelligent, good communicators, socially aware, cheerful, etc.

Quad Theory, Again

If you think about the core idea of Quad Theory, that there are 4 essential skills for success in any endeavor, and in life: Empowerment, Wisdom, Congruence, and Love, it's difficult for me to find any counter-examples.

Isn't it the case that at least in the realms in which they are successful, that people of success, power, influence, and achievement have these 4 traits?

FAQ - Frequently Asked Questions

Q - What is a Wisdom Strategy?

A - A philosophy, a technique, a system, a strategy, or a distinction that when understood and utilized gives us access to wisdom.

Q - Are you a guru, teacher, coach or what?

A - Thank you for asking! To some extent all of the above, and to some extent none of the above.

The way I like to think about it is I am a facilitator of Profound Personal Development.

Q - How does that differ from being a coach or therapist?

12 Steps For Humanity

The 12 Steps, originally of Alcoholics Anonymous, and now the most popular path to Recovery from all addictions, is often overlooked as a valid spiritual path for those who are not dealing with major addictions.

In truth, the 12 Steps are imminently workable for life and living for all humanity. I am presenting them as a free package in the tradition of 12 Step groups.

Is Joe Vitale Wrong? I'm Sorry, Please Forgive Me, Thank You, I Love You

Dear Readers,

Joe Vitale is a rather well-known personality in the Personal Development, Marketing, and New Age communities. I have followed his work for some years now, both enjoying and benefiting from it.

Starting with his book No Limits, followed by The Key, Mr. Vitale has advocated the use of a short "Affirmation Stack" as I call it, that goes "I'm sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you. I love you." Mr. Vitale claims that this is an affirmational practice for "clearing".

Clarifying Questions

Sometimes all we need to transform a challenging situation is to ask and answer a few questions.

These 21 questions have the potential of profoundly clarifying and transforming your thinking about just about any situation, relationship, or topic.

1. What would you like to get clear about?

2. What is it about __________ that isn't clear?

3. What is about _________ that you react to?

4. What GOALS , RESULTS, OR OUTCOMES would you like to achieve?

Massiveness

Dear Reader,

I'm going to share a concept with you in this newsletter that is one of THE KEY DIFFERENCES between those who really make remarkable progress with personal development programs, and those who make little or no progress.

Theres only 1 aspect to this distinction. It's very simple, straightforward, difficult to apply, and could be the missing factor that can totally revolutionize your life.

Most of us in the West try to skip this factor.

I'll call it Massiveness. Sounds kind of hip, sexy, and mysterious, doesn't it?

It's actually an ancient distinction.

Multiplying and Deepening Affirmation Effectiveness

Hello,

Here it comes:

Autumn! Are you ready?

In terms of what seasons mean to us archetypically,
and in general, autumn is the time for reaping the benefits
of the work we've done over the past year.

Now, here's an interesting question:

How can we reap the maximum rewards from
our affirmations?

Well, for starters, we need to have well - designed,
custom affirmations that we "jive with".

Affirmations that really are fantastic for me, might leave something
to be desired for you, and vice versa.

Yes!! The 2 Minute Drill

Hello,

Summer is weird, have you noticed that too?

It's over 100 degrees outside, and I'm freezing inside. Oh well, that's technology for you. Everything has both an advantage and a disadvantage, even if they are subtle advantages or disadvantages.

What I want to talk with you about today is a subtle distinction, a piece of subtle technology, if you will.

What I want to show you is the power of "Yes!"

Specifically, there are 2 things I'm referring to:

1) Yes as affirmation in it's own right.

Stacking Affirmations

Hello and Welcome Back!

I took a bit of a hiatus from writing these newsletters over the past year or so.

You probably noticed that you haven't seen or heard much from me over the past many months.

Did you miss me? =)

Over that time I've learned a lot, and I'm excited to share some of it with you here.

So, what shall we talk about and explore today?

Let's take a shower.

Huh?

For many years now I've done affirmations in the shower.

I like to say them outloud, for most, or all of the time I'm in there.

I started doing this back in 1989 after listening

Minicourse Lesson #2 - How to Put the Attainment of Your Desires on Automatic Pilot

Dear Reader,

I hope that you enjoyed the first installment of this mini-course.

In Lesson #2 below, we'll learn a powerful, and extremely simple technique for
continuously increasing your effectiveness.

Enjoy!!

Robert

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Minicourse Lesson #2

Lesson Two: How to Put the Attainment of Your Desires on Automatic Pilot
By Stuart A. Lichtman
Author, “How to Get Lots of Money For Anything – Fast!”
http://www.anything-fast.com/?fid=wisdom

“My goal is to be rich by the end of the year.”

Moving Up the Levels

The essential core of the Wisdom Strategy work, and transformational methodology is a progressive journey through 4 Levels of Profound Personal Development.

Each of the levels is a grouping of packages. A package is a very thorough address and handling to master or resolve a particular topic area.

There are also mini - levels between and after each major level.

Level 1 - Impeccability. Handle the fundamental areas of concern in life, and become a person of Impeccability.

Level 1a - The Rock: Solid Impeccability.

The Age of The Avatar

One of the components of the mission of Wisdom Strategy Research Institute is help to make it possible for there to be an Age of the Avatar.

A new chapter in humanity's history when the completely self - realized, impeccable, enlightened individual is common place, and existing among us in the millions. This will give us entirely new and unpredictable realms of experience that will make way for unforeseen levels of positive possibility.

3 Basic and Critical Factors

Hello,

Something interesting happened to me recently. A good friend was completely stressed out of her mind preparing for an upcoming speaking engagement. On one hand that's completely understandable because it can be daunting to get up in front of a few hundred people and bare your soul. On the other hand, I found that it was, as the famous hypnotist Milton Erickson was fond of saying, "an unprecedented opportunity to learn something."

John Grinder's Modelling Strategy

John Grinder is the co-creator of Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP for short). NLP is formally described as the study of the structure of subjective experience. More often, NLP is described as a study of excellence. The approach to studying excellence is to find those who are "excellent" or at least are better, or have a unique approach to some endeavor. Then, we go about a process of learning to do what the model does, in the way they do it.

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